Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Cambodia pictures up
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Saturday, November 10, 2007
Confessions of a fervent (almost deadly) shopaholic
Coins: Have you used that bag you bought the other day yet?
Shopaholic: What (bag)..Ooh!! *burst out laughing* You know I totally forgot about that bag. Gawd, I don't even know where it is now..
It's my cousin's wedding tomorrow and I went frantically searching for that said bag.
I'm just glad I found the bag and resisted the temptation to buy another one at the Metro sale yesterday.
For now, I guess I just need to calm my nerves and overcome the shock I got from the heaps of new clothes (while digging, literally, for the bag) I managed to amass unknowingly. And I thought the new shoes hiding in the corner were big problems. I think I need to liquidate soon. BAH!
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Shopaholic: What (bag)..Ooh!! *burst out laughing* You know I totally forgot about that bag. Gawd, I don't even know where it is now..
It's my cousin's wedding tomorrow and I went frantically searching for that said bag.
I'm just glad I found the bag and resisted the temptation to buy another one at the Metro sale yesterday.
For now, I guess I just need to calm my nerves and overcome the shock I got from the heaps of new clothes (while digging, literally, for the bag) I managed to amass unknowingly. And I thought the new shoes hiding in the corner were big problems. I think I need to liquidate soon. BAH!
Friday, November 02, 2007
kthxbyee
Of late, the whole world seems to be:
a) getting married
b) getting pregnant
c) gettingobsessed with concerned about getting married
d) gettingobsessed with concerned getting pregnant
e) all of the above
Dont' get me wrong there, I have absolutely no problem with people sharing their joy and aspirations to be good spouses. I am sincerely happy for them. I like to sit in a corner to listen to them talk about their flats, wedding dinners and whatnots. But for some mysterious reasons, somewhere along these happy conversations- perhaps feeling guilty of hoarding too much attention, which I absolutely have no problem with- people just couldn't resist asking the no. 1 most dreaded question (at least for now it's topping my chart), when will be turn be (or 1973534653 variations along those lines).
I find it hard to tell people about my non-intention, because it usually solicits a 'why', which I find pretty morbid to explain and even if I did, people will not understand anyway. Perhaps to make it clear once and for all, there will be NO turn as there is no intention, at all. I might think otherwise in future, but for now, I am pretty sure I like the way my life is. So please stop making comments like "when the time comes, you will blah blah blah" or it's 1973534653 other variations; stop asking why as well. I guess we all have a right to choose the way we live, while I share your joy, I greatly appreciate if you could respect mine to live the life I think is best for me. To quote TwT-my-best-friend-in-office, "Don't make your problem my problem" or perhaps in this case, "Don't make my problem your problem".
It's getting pretty annoying. People assume that when you are in the 20's, you are obliged to find someone and should be planning to spend the rest of your life with the person. It just irks me to no end whenever some concerned cabby or random stranger strikes a conversation, it just gets to that topic somehow. No, being 25 (or rather 24 -going-25) does not necessarily mean I should be settling down, I don't think marriage is no longer as 'norm' as it was anymore (I know I might be wrong in your opinion). And stop assuming that I should be looking. *rolls eyes*
I just don't see the need to invite more complications in my life.
kthxbyee.
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a) getting married
b) getting pregnant
c) getting
d) getting
e) all of the above
Dont' get me wrong there, I have absolutely no problem with people sharing their joy and aspirations to be good spouses. I am sincerely happy for them. I like to sit in a corner to listen to them talk about their flats, wedding dinners and whatnots. But for some mysterious reasons, somewhere along these happy conversations- perhaps feeling guilty of hoarding too much attention, which I absolutely have no problem with- people just couldn't resist asking the no. 1 most dreaded question (at least for now it's topping my chart), when will be turn be (or 1973534653 variations along those lines).
I find it hard to tell people about my non-intention, because it usually solicits a 'why', which I find pretty morbid to explain and even if I did, people will not understand anyway. Perhaps to make it clear once and for all, there will be NO turn as there is no intention, at all. I might think otherwise in future, but for now, I am pretty sure I like the way my life is. So please stop making comments like "when the time comes, you will blah blah blah" or it's 1973534653 other variations; stop asking why as well. I guess we all have a right to choose the way we live, while I share your joy, I greatly appreciate if you could respect mine to live the life I think is best for me. To quote TwT-my-best-friend-in-office, "Don't make your problem my problem" or perhaps in this case, "Don't make my problem your problem".
It's getting pretty annoying. People assume that when you are in the 20's, you are obliged to find someone and should be planning to spend the rest of your life with the person. It just irks me to no end whenever some concerned cabby or random stranger strikes a conversation, it just gets to that topic somehow. No, being 25 (or rather 24 -going-25) does not necessarily mean I should be settling down, I don't think marriage is no longer as 'norm' as it was anymore (I know I might be wrong in your opinion). And stop assuming that I should be looking. *rolls eyes*
I just don't see the need to invite more complications in my life.
kthxbyee.
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